First came love, but that doesn't mean next comes marriage or little Hugh Grants in a baby carriage.

Grant says he's too in love with his freewheeling lifestyle to say "I do" to model Liz Hurley."Being married with one or two children in a pretty house in London is not living to me," the 34-year-old star of "Four Weddings and a Funeral" told the British magazine Hello!

So what is? "To fly to Paris, stay at the Ritz, dine at little bistros, go to fashion shows in Milan - that's what I call enjoying myself," Grant said.

Grant's relationship with Hurley has apparently survived his arrest with a prostitute in Los Angeles in July. The couple are house hunting in Ireland and are partners in a film production company, the magazine said.