Babies belong at home, not in a movie theater. It is unfair for one fussy child and two frustrated parents to ruin the film experience of an entire audience. It is only in Utah that a little one is ever seen or heard in the auditorium.
Like good books, movies are an art form that provide an escape from the real world. When either is successful, I leave reality for a time and become one with the characters and their surroundings. Too many times recently, the spell of the film was totally shattered by the fussing of a youngster.It is difficult to understand the parent who sits in his seat and tries to quiet the child, or even takes him to the back of the house where he continues to disturb other moviegoers. A baby doesn't belong in the theater in the first place.
It is unrealistic to expect a youngster to remain quiet for an entire two hours. He belongs in a safe, secure environment where his crying affects only his parents. It is unfair to bring a baby to a place where his natural impulses must be stifled.
We all recognize the demanding role of new parents. They need time together, away from their children, to nurture their relationship. If mom and dad hire a sitter, they create an opportunity to recharge and restore their relationship. If money is a problem, the parents can exchange baby-sitting duties with other young families. If neither solution works, parents can rent a video.
Here in Utah babies are encouraged and welcome in church meetings. Perhaps because a child's fussing is tolerated in church, young parents feel it acceptable in the theater. In fairness to the child, the parents and the other moviegoers, youngsters should be left at home. Then the audience can enjoy the entertainment experience it expects and deserves.
Barbara Richards
Salt Lake City