Almost two years ago, while at work one day, I had an experience I have not forgotten. Because we are now in the midst of the NBA playoffs, readers might understand my choice to share this experience.
Having worked in the public sector for over 30 years and having heard day in and day out interaction between parents and children as they communicate, I've learned a great deal about how parents show love and respect for their children. Some do express it well, some seem indifferent and some are actually mean and hurtful to their children.On the particular day of which I'm speaking, I overheard a conversation going on in the next aisle with a father and his children as they picked out a greeting card. I heard from that father something I seldom hear.
His kind and loving voice sent a message as well as did his willingness to listen to his children as they read different cards to him. He showed such respect I was compelled to listen.
At one point, he pointed out that their sister needed some help and the other children immediately ran to her aid. They talked things over about choices, and the respect that flowed among them for one another was truly heartwarming.
It was such an unusual experience of true parental guidance and love I have never forgotten.
What does this have to do with basketball? On the day mentioned, my curiosity was piqued so I went to the aisle to see if I might know the family. To my surprise, there stood Jeff Hornacek.
He is a basketball champion. But after hearing words of love, respect, kindness and concern as he talked with his children, it seems to me that even more importantly, he is a champion father.
Kathleen Christison
Salt Lake City