Growing up, I was taught that tithing consisted of 10 percent of our increase.

In my parents' family, "increase" was defined as gross income,

including salary before taxes.

But

my dad and mom often made extra money, beyond salary or wages — my dad

from his sign painting and photography, my mom from typing

dissertations and other projects.

My

dad explained once that in defining the tithing on a one-shot,

part-time sign painting job, he really should deduct, as any other

business does, the cost of materials. "But that feels to me like

nickel-and-diming the Lord," he said, so he didn't bother making

deductions — he tithed on the whole amount he was paid. "Still,

wouldn't be wrong if somebody else chose to deduct those costs," he explained.

He told me that when he owned an actual sign-painting company, he based his tithing on the income after

deducting the costs of employees, equipment, and so on. "The company

didn't pay tithing on its gross receipts, I paid tithing on the portion

that was my increase."

That's what he believed was right, after prayer and consultation — with my mother first, and then, together, with the bishop.

As

I got older, I learned what tithing money was used for, and the many

spiritual and temporal reasons why it's essential to pay that 10 percent.

I also learned about

taxes. We as citizens might disagree about how our tax dollars should

be spent, but most of us agree that it's good to pool a portion of our

resources in order to accomplish tasks that could not be done as well

or as conveniently by private enterprise.

Both

tithing and taxes are based on a percentage of our income. We pay

tithing in obedience to the commandments of God; we pay taxes in

obedience to the commandments of men.

When

we account for our tithe-paying to the bishop each year, what we work

out with him, after his questions and suggestions, is our full tithing

obligation. It's not his job to demand our records or check with our

employer or the bank. Ultimately, it's between us and God.

When

we account for our taxes, we need to include proofs of income, and must

stand ready to be audited by someone with the authority to take from us

what he thinks we should have paid.

A

tax system that was handled the way we work with tithing would leave an

ever-shrinking number of honest taxpayers to provide government

services for the dishonest ones, which would soon leave the government

unable to perform its vital functions.

And

who would join a church that dealt with tithes the way the IRS (in

America) deals with taxes? Paying tithing would not count as

righteousness if it were compelled.

Here

is a good rule: Prepare your taxes so honorably you would not fear

laying your calculations before the Lord. And figure your tithing so

carefully you would not fear an audit from the IRS.

It's

quite possible that you'll find you can't use the IRS's definition of

"taxable income" as the exact basis for the "increase" you pay tithing

on.

For one thing, you probably

deduct your tithing donations from your taxable income — and it would

hardly do to subtract your tithing before calculating your tithing, for

then you'd end up paying only 9 percent!

The

government allows all kinds of exemptions and reductions in order to

encourage us to engage in certain activities. There's a deduction for

the interest we pay on a mortgage. Certain kinds of income are taxed at

a very different rate. There's a minimum income beneath which you pay

no taxes at all. None of these should reduce our tithing.

The Lord's system seems simpler, because it's a flat rate: 10 percent of your "increase" for the year, no exceptions.

But

it's more complicated than that. If you're taking every lawful

deduction that the government authorizes, you may end up with a much

lower number than the one you ought to base your tithing on.

You

are not cheating the government, as long as you follow the law; but the

government doesn't have the authority to decide what you can or can't

exempt from your tithable income.

Do

you count the portion of your health insurance your employer pays for?

When you go to the doctor and don't pay the full cost of the treatment,

aren't you receiving "increase"?

And

what do you do about a 401(k)? When your employer matches your savings

in such an account, isn't that income? Or do you wait to pay tithing on

the 401(k) until you withdraw from it after you retire, so you don't

tithe even the portion you contribute now?

What

about the money paid into Social Security? If we tithe that money now,

does that mean our Social Security benefits are already "pre-tithed"?

Or should we figure out how much our employer is paying into the

system, and count that as increase right now?

Or,

when we retire, do we add up our lifetime contributions to Social

Security, on which we already paid tithing, and don't pay tithing on it

until the benefits exceed what we paid in?

I

do not know the "right" answer to any of these questions, and the

official church response to questions like this is always the same:

Pray — and consult with your bishop.

The

last thing the church wants or needs is to develop a "tithing code"

like the government's hundreds-of-pages tax code! Besides, then we'd be

tempted to find loopholes.

Here's

what I think should be the "code" we follow in figuring our tithing:

If, after deciding on the "increase" you intend to tithe, you feel bad

or uncomfortable or can't stop wondering whether it's right, or if you

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feel like you're getting away with something, then maybe you need to

pray awhile longer or talk to the bishop again and make a change or

two.

And even after an honest, full tithing, there's nothing stopping you from consecrating even more of your increase as fast offerings and other donations.

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