I have been interviewing people recently while posing the following question. If you had all the money in the world, how would you spent it?
The answers, not surprisingly, have been as varied as those interviewed.
Here's a sampling of some of those answers:
"I would buy a beach house, a ranch to enjoy my retirement, or a mountain chalet! I would pay off ALL my debts. I would pay for the kids education and help them with a down payment on their first house! I would travel and see the world with all my family!"
Some of the younger participants, especially those of the male persuasion had very specific, and I might add exotic, cars in mind. I can totally relate to their answers. I remember when I was young I used to fantasize about owning a red Ferrari. I spent countless hours thinking what it would be like to drive such an amazing car. I was certain that would be the ultimate in life and would certainly make me the happiest person in the world (which might also explain my driving habits even though I've never owned such a fast car).
I also noticed the theme of those who had been around for a few years, especially women's answers. A lot of them were centered around helping those less fortunate: creating programs like micro loans for disenfranchised women in third world countries, or giving opportunities to those who are stuck economically in a cycle of never ending poverty and would like to climb out of such a dire situation. Many said that writing a check or making a donation was too easy, even though it might make a world of a difference to the recipients. They felt that using their resources to actively participate in service projects in their communities and around the world would be far more meaningful.
As most of you know, earlier this year I had an opportunity to go to Port-au-Prince in Haiti; it was right after the devastating earthquake destroyed most of the city. I spent the majority of the time at the Foyer de Sion orphanage, and I can tell you that those few days being with the children has changed my life forever. As much as I like the nicer things in life and can totally understand some of the answers given above, it is the latter that is the most meaningful and fulfilling.
Nothing compares to helping someone who has nothing or very little in this world. I know when we become empty nesters, one of our goals is to serve one or more humanitarian or service missions somewhere around the world. Our best self comes out when we lose ourselves in the service of others. The hymn "Because I Have Been Given Much" comes to mind. Regardless of where we are in our lives, regardless of our financial circumstances, we don't have to wait to help someone else until we "make it big!"
Perhaps the better question is not "what would you do if you had all the money in the world" but rather what will you do with what you have right now?
As always, feel free to share your thoughts.