Cresting 30: Don Osmond: Flirt to convert

I've recently started getting e-mails from faithful readers on different topics. Some tell me stories about their conversation as it pertains to my family; others are a little more curious about my dating life — insisting on lining me up with their daughters.Truth be told, I do enjoy reading those e-mails. Some of them spawn concepts for my blog.The idea for today's blog, for example, came from a young woman's e-mail who is frustrated about dating. She read my Cowboy article and mentioned how disheartening it is for her to find a good LDS guy.Her solution to the dilemma was to start dating guys that aren't LDS — broadening her dating pool.She asked my opinion about dating someone of another faith, and supplementing her statement with, "hopefully he'll convert and we'll get married in the temple."It's a dating tactic often referred to as flirt to convert.Well, I'm no Dear Abby; however, I can provide my thoughts.First off, you don't crest 30 years old without having that notion cross your mind once or twice. And, being LDS, the constant reminder of eternal marriage looming over one's head is intimidating, to say the least.So, have I thought about the flirt-to-convert tactic? Yes. I've dated girls of other Christian faiths, and at times even considered taking those relationships more seriously.Converting to another religion solely based on a love interest may not be the best foundation to begin a marriage.Although, does flirting to convert work? Sure. I've heard success stories. Those relationships take extra time and are fraught with challenges, but what relationship isn't?I guess, in the end, each of us makes our own dating decisions. What will work for one doesn't always work for another.For the young woman looking for her cowboy ... define your goals through sincere prayer and let your heart guide you.The path of life isn't always lined with silver, but the wisdom gained through experience is worth 10 times its weight in gold.