For members of The

Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Time Warner's Home Box Office

network will cross a very bright ethical line when it airs an episode of "Big

Love" Sunday that producers ironically said Tuesday depicts LDS temple

ceremonies with "dignity and reverence." HBO apologized if the episode

offends but is not likely to pull from its lineup.Here's the first ethical

problem — honesty. Under the guise of portraying a polygamist family drama,

series producers employed an ex-Mormon to help them construct sets and costumes

to re-create temple rites. The disingenuous statements continue. "Big Love" producers had

promised that they would draw clear lines between the practices of polygamist

groups and the LDS Church. Here's the statement HBO released Tuesday:"We

know that the writers/producers of the series have gone to great lengths to be

respectful and accurate in portraying the endowment ceremony. That ceremony is

very much an important part of this year's storyline. Obviously, it was not

our intention to do anything disrespectful to the church but to those who may

be offended, we offer our sincere apology. It should also be noted that

throughout the series' three-year run, the writer/producers have made abundantly

clear the distinction between the LDS church and those extreme fringe groups who

practice polygamy. "If it was so, why does the media around the world still

so easily confuse the two? They obviously don't get it. In this case on two

fronts — an excommunication proceeding and temple ceremonies — they are using

LDS Church practices as the portrayal of what polygamist groups do. Producers

may understand the difference between the two groups but don't seem to care if

viewers are confused and, in fact, their statements sound like they are

unapologetic for their choices. Is the consultant privy to what fundamentalist

groups do in their church and temple?Even then, why should those groups be

subject to the same kind of media abuse?In a prepared statement

released Tuesday to the media, "Big Love" producers Mark V. Olsen and Will

Scheffer said, "In approaching the dramatization of the endowment ceremony, we

knew we had a responsibility to be completely accurate and to show the ceremony

in the proper context and with respect. We therefore took great pains to depict

the ceremony with the dignity and reverence it is due. This approach is entirely

evident in the scene portrayed in this episode and certainly reflected in Jeanne

Tripplehorn's beautiful and moving performance as she faces losing the church

she loved so much. In order to assure the accuracy of the ceremony, it was

thoroughly vetted by an adviser who is familiar with temple practices and

rituals. This consultant was actually on the set throughout the filming of the

scenes to make sure every detail was correct."What the producers don't

get is the "context." Temple blessings are understood by those who are worthy

and spiritually prepared. The spirit of God inside the temple helps people make

and keep sacred covenants with God. What Olsen and Scheffer have created amounts

to religious pornography. It takes something that is sacred and meant for

personal reflection and commitment and throws it before the masses.

Unfortunately, other religious groups have not been spared entertainment

industry abuse. See the LDS Church statement here.

I also appreciated the words by a Salt Lake rabbi on KSL-TV."The whole

idea of having holy, sacred garments is that they act as a reminder to the

person or persons wearing them. That what's going on, what is happening while

those garments are being worn is a sacred moment," said Rabbi Benny Zippel, of

the Chabad Lubavitch of Utah. Here's what TV Guide magazine wrote about

the episode:" 'It's almost a 'don't ask, don't tell' policy,' says executive

producer Mark Olsen. Their under-the-radar status will change this week when

Barb (Jeanne Tripplehorn) faces the consequences of breaking the rules and is

called to an excommunication hearing. 'We researched it out the wazoo,' says

Olsen, who along with executive producer Will Scheffer hired an ex-Mormon

consultant to help the set and wardrobe designers re-create even the tiniest

details. 'We go into the endowment room and the celestial room (areas of the

temple), and we present what happens in those ceremonies. That's never been

shown on television before,' says Olsen. Adds Scheffer, 'But it's not for shock

value. It's really a very important part of the story.' "The second

ethical problem is "Big Love" producers' sense of arrogance and lack of

sensitivity. I am reminded of the controversy surrounding the publication of

Danish cartoons depicting Mohammed in newspapers around the world. In the

United States, some wrapped themselves in the flag of the First Amendment and

Free Speech asserting their right to publish what Muslims considered offensive.

Yet calmer voices said that attention should be paid to how Muslims perceived

such publication and respect that right. Many publications refused to run the

cartoons on ethical grounds. All humans deserve respect. The airing of this

episode is a total disregard to what members of a religious group holds dear and

sacred. According to Elder Dallin H. Oaks, with rights to publish, air and speak freely also comes responsibility.

The "Big Love" producers are abandoning such responsibility to shock value. They

will likely get what they want, big ratings driven by controversy.Don't

get me wrong. I don't believe there should be any effort by government to censor

HBO, but I do believe those who care about respect for religious ideals should

enter the marketplace of ideas and make calm and reasoned arguments about why

this show is offensive. The public should demand HBO observe higher ethical

standards. HBO ought to make the ethical decision to pull the show based on its

offense to members of the nation's fourth largest religious denomination. That

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message has already gone viral. There are groups on Facebook, tweets on Twitter

and e-mail blasts asking Latter-day Saints and others to ask HBO to examine its

ethical principles. I join those raising a call for HBO to exercise some

responsibility with its First Amendment rights.

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