Mitt Romney: ‘I didn’t realize I was at a disadvantage because my mom stayed home’
Utah senator questions suggestion that children do better outside their home than being raised by parents
Sen. Mitt Romney took issue with the suggestion that children develop better in an environment outside their homes rather than being reared by one or both parents during a Senate committee hearing Tuesday.
The Utah Republican said Democratic proposals on child care seem to have “significant bias” toward getting women and men into the labor force as opposed to saying it’s acceptable for a parent to stay home.
“It does seem like the administration strongly prefers getting kids out of the home and getting both parents into the workforce,” he said.
Romney asked Marcia St. Hilaire-Finn, founder and CEO of Bright Start Early Care and Preschool in Washington, D.C., if she was concerned that too much focus on federal mandates might be detrimental to the effects on children who otherwise might be raised with the involvement and investment of a parent.
“Children develop better in an environment where they can engage with others besides their family members,” St. Hilaire-Finn said. “Allowing a child to be in a setting where they can develop their cognitive and social and emotional skills will allow the parents to go to work and not have to worry about their child falling behind by the time they’re ready for kindergarten.”
Romney said he didn’t realize that he was at a disadvantage because his mom stayed home.
“I guess what you describe is a perspective on the part of the administration which I find contrary to personal experience and contrary to the perspective of many parents. I would think that as we think about the policies that we want to have with regards to child rearing we would give authority to the parents to make that decision as opposed to an administration to make it for them,” he said.
The exchange came at a Senate Health, Education, Labor and Pensions committee hearing on paid family leave for working families.
In a tweet after the hearing, Romney said, “Washington shouldn’t tell parents how to raise their kids.”
The Democrats’ witness seems to believe children raised by a stay-at-home parent, like I was, are disadvantaged. It’s no coincidence that the Administration wants to spend $500 billion on government-approved daycare. Washington shouldn’t tell parents how to raise their kids. pic.twitter.com/FVdfqxuw7g— Senator Mitt Romney (@SenatorRomney) May 18, 2021
Romney said he understands that there’s an economic reality or advantage to both parents working, but there’s also developmental advantage for the child if a parent remains in the home.
He questioned the notion that a 3- or 4-year-old child is better being in a professional child care center approved by the government than being in their home and in their neighborhood.
St. Hilaire-Finn said parents are a child’s first teachers and the preference is to be with their family. But if the family can’t do that, it’s greatly beneficial for a child to be in a setting where they can get developmental support.
“Studies have shown that children outside of the family who are in a group care setting do much better socially, emotionally and cognitively,” she said. “I know we don’t want to defer for the nation to take care of parents’ responsibility but it’s a partnership and helps foster that child’s development better than just being with the parents.”
Romney has proposed his own plan to help working families.
The Family Security Act would give a child allowance of $250 a month for school-age children and $350 a month for those who are younger starting a few months before birth, with a monthly cap of $1,250. Billed as deficit-neutral, Romney plans to pay for it by killing or streamlining existing programs and ditching federal deductions for state and local taxes. Among other changes, it would eliminate Temporary Assistance for Needy Families and the head of household income tax filing status.
The proposal has garnered both praise and criticism.